Hi, again.
I just found this post: http://communities.vmware.com/thread/448394
And seems like i looked at the wrong CPU on intel's site.. what i got is a 4670K, and it does NOT SUPPORT VT-D (i thought it did)!!
I the post i found, the guy has a i7 with K at the end, and got a i7 with S and the end instead, and this works. since they supports VT-D!
CPU i got: ARK | Intel® Core™ i5-4670K Processor (6M Cache, up to 3.80 GHz)
CPU i need instead: ARK | Intel® Core™ i5-4670 Processor (6M Cache, up to 3.80 GHz) Or the "S" model ( ARK | Intel® Core™ i5-4670S Processor (6M Cache, up to 3.80 GHz) ) , but that one is a little bit slower - but uses much less power..
I will try and see if i can get it exchanged from where i bought it, but i sadly dont think so since i got it in a "upgrade package" with MB, RAM and CPU.
But thanks for everyone trying to help, i hope i did not cause too much head scratching!
Maybe this post will help others with the same issue..